Shwari!
As you may have noticed, it's been easiest for me to send these out once a week and review the things that I've done over the past week. But lately, I feel like there are a lot of little things that I see or experience that never quite make it into my e-mail but I really want to share. So here, are some really random things that I have had the pleasure of experiencing here.
Starting with the electric slide. Most all Americans are familiar with it, especially if the song comes on at a wedding or other event where people from all ages are dancing together. But here, people dance the electric slide to everything, at any club. It's really quite a strange site to go up to a dance floor with some techno remix of a popular song from 10 years ago and see people dancing the electric slide. AND THEN, that song leads into a new one, and they're still dancing the electric slide. It's almost like a constant flash mob and no one seems to notice, it just happens.
Next up is clothes, people here care about their appearance, and professionals at least, will always have on clean, pressed clothes. But many people seem to have very little sense of matching their clothes. Mixing random patterns (maybe animal print and stripes) with random colors is pretty common, plus any shoes will do. Of course there are matching outfits that people make, but usually it's the same fabric so you've got a safe bet there. I've had someone compliment me on my outfit when i had a specific color scheme going on, which back home no one would look twice at.
Continuing with the theme of appearance, the culture here is generally very conservative. If, as a female, you wear shorts or a shirt above you knee or a top with spaghetti straps, you can expect some unwanted stares and comments from people around you. But if you have baby who needs to breastfeed and you're sitting on the side of a main street or on a bus or anywhere really, you just start nursing right there with nothing to cover yourself. I've seen it several times and while I suppose it makes sense (too hot to cover up, it's rude to look and so it's just accepted here) I still can't quite get comfortable with it. In addition to that, if you go out to a club at night, all of the rules about clothes go out the window. Girls dress just as skimpy in a club as the would in the US, I guess the difference is that you expect to be in a car for the entire travel time and the people in the club are usually mzungu or well-off Tanzanians who don't get offended by it. A couple of other interesting things I've seen has been a woman with a plastic bag on her head underneath a cloth wrap...water proofing maybe? I saw a young boy with a shirt that said "it's a girl thing" another that said "I <3 virginia", "Cheerleading fan team" and even a UMD jersey (I may have taken a picture of that guy).
Another interesting difference is the way kids are treated. Not in a bad way per se, but their safety is apparently not in as much jeopardy as it is in the US. People let their young children walk across town to school on their own every day (I'm talking like 5 year olds here). They are free to play in the street or at a neighbors house and no one is really worried what they are up to. Rahim, in fact wanders around the house and yard as he likes and plays with anything he happens to find (he's been known to eat matches). There's no such thing as child proofing, or car seats. You get on a bus with a kid and don't have a seat? Pass the kid to a stranger to sit on their lap for the ride. Only seat open in the bus is the front? Your small child sits on your lap in the front seat. Only person in the car is you, the driver, and you're taking your child somewhere? Here's hoping he sits relatively still. In some ways its nice that people don't worry so much about every little detail, but I can't help but freak out a little when I see some of these situations. All of it, of course is relative to the abilities and needs of the people so I'm not criticizing, just noticing.
As well as having children wander everywhere, I've seen chickens, goats and cows all over the place. Usually the goats and cows will be herded around by someone but they still have free roam, which is kind of cool. Although the drivers here are crazy and I was surprised by the fact that I haven't seen any road kill. Though I heard a story from a friend here that she saw a Massai guy cutting up a dead cow on the side of the road once so I suspect that any animals killed by a car quickly become someones food so you rarely actually see them.